In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts:
https://amzn.to/4fkF68Z

Codependent No More:
https://amzn.to/4fcaCWo

I think this is the podcast episode she referenced:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/5cVANMo6GS0xpr32ygJ697?si=f4fe8afe162b45a3